Life is a battle field. Everyone faces battles. Let no body deceive you. Everyone if fighting about something. The level of battle varies , so does the unfairness of the battle, so does the frequency. You have only lost when you stop fighting. You will win and only God can stop you and why should He? So stop winning and start fighting. You win surely win. If you fail, rethink, replan and fight again. You win win with God's help!!!